JARRELLE KALVIN CALHOUN

                  THE HOME GOING CELEBRATION

                      JARRELLE KALVIN CALHOUN

                         AUGUST 1,1986--JULY, 2004

JARRELLE KALVIN CALHOUN 17. IS THE YOUNGEST SON OF JONOTHAN AND CLAUDETTE CALHOUN SR.ONE BROTHER JONOTHAN KENT CALHOUN JR. TWO SISTERS ANGEL MARIE CALHOUN AND SHAKETA CHRISTINA CAMMACK:GRAND PARENTS MR AND MRS. LEWIS FARMER, MR AND MRS ROBERT PATTON :ONE GREAT GRANDMOTHER. MRS. LILA MAE PATTON; GOD-MOTHER. MS ANNETTE FARMER.FOUR GREAT AUNTS. MS.MARGRET WHITE, MRS. ROSA LEE CHATHAM, MRS RUBY KIDD; AND JULIA MANNING:TWO GREAT UNCLES OLIVER CAMMACK AND LINWOOD MANNING

FOURTEEN AUNT AND SEVEN UNCLES.TWO NAPHEWS KAYJON PRINCE FLEMING AND DANIEL Q CAMMACK; ONE GOD SON LATRELL KNIGHT. FIFTY COUSIN; AND ONE DEVOTED COUSIN TAMEKA MOSS AND VANESSA JONES A GOOD FRIEND.

MY JARRELLE HAD A LOT OF JOY AND HE LOVED HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS. HE HAD A SPECIAL GIFT OF BRINGING HIS FAMILY TOGETHER AND WATCHING THEM JUST ENJOYING ONE ANOTHER.SO MANY PEOPLE WILL FOREVER MISS JARRELLE; HE HAS TOUCHES SO  MANY LIVES IN SUCH A SPECIAL WAY.REMEMBER HIM AND FOLLOW HIS PATH IN LOVING AND RECEIVEING LOVE FOR JARRELLE KNEW THE LORD AND THROUGH HIS KNOWLEDGE AND FAITH IN THE LORD HE MADE HIS JOURNEY HOME. MY LITTLE MAN MOMA WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU. MY MR. FIXIT, WHAT DONT KILL YOU ONLY MAKE YOU STRONGER. LOVE YOU SON

Passed away on July 17, 2004 at the age of 17.

JARRELLE MY BABY BOY THE DAY YOU YOU WENT TO GLORY A PIECE OF ME LEFT WITH YOU IT HURTS SO MUCH NOT TO SEE YOU, I IHOPE AND PRAY YOU ARE SMILING.

Born in Virginia RICHMOND VA on August 1, 1986.

JARRELLE YOU WENT ON TO HEAVEN DIDT HAVE ANY REGRETS, LOVED EVERYBODY AND HAD SO MUCH RESPECT.I AM SO PROUD OF YOU. I BELIVE YOU ARE DOING YOUR THING IN HEAVEN. I KNOW ALL YOUR FAMILY UP THEIR IS PROUD OF YOU. I AM SURE MOZELLE IS TELLING YOU WHAT TO DO. MS ELIZABETH IS JUST SO PROUD. MRS ALICE IS ALLOWING YOU TO DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO IN HER EYES YOU LOOKING LIKE YOUR DADDY IN HE NEVER DID ANY THING WRONG IN HER EYES. RELL I KNOW YOU HAVE ALOT OF FAMILY MEMBERS UP THEIR I WAS JUST THINKING OF YOUR GRANDMOTHERS .JARRELLE YOU HAVE DONE MORE THEN YOU COULD I KNOW YOU LOVE US AND WE LOOVE YOU. I HATE THAT YOU HAD TO GO,I BET YOU ARE IN GLORY.RELL YOU WAS SCARED AT FIRST I HAVE TO BELIVE THE GOOD LORD PICK YOU UP AND SAID WELCOME HOME JARRELLE YOUR FAMILY WILL BE OK JARRELLE BUT YOU HAVE WORK TO DO NOW! I BELIVE YOU SAVE MY LIFE.RELL I ALWAYS WILL WISH IT WOULD OF BEEN ME INSTEAD OF YOU SON. YOU WOULD  OF TOOK CARE OF OUR FAMILY. LOVE YOU BOY.

HAPPY 2OTH BIRTHDAY

          SON                            

                              JARRELLE ON YOUR 20TH BIRTHAY I AM SURE THE ANGEL IN HEAVEN GAVE YOU A WONDERFUL PARTY SO ALL YOUR FAMILY YOU HAVE HERE WE TOOK LIL JOHN OUT TO DINNER AND WE ALL SAID HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU. WE WILL NEVER FORGET YOU I CAN PROMISE YOU THAT. HAPPY BIRTHDAY ITS NOT THE SAME I ALWAYS SAY YOU WAS THE THE GLUE THAT KEPT THE FAMILY TOGETHER.

HAPPYBIRTHDAY

             RELL                                      

JARRELLE KALVIN CALHOUN

                               SWEET17

GOD I KNOW YOU GAVE YOUR SON, TO GIVE US LIFE WITH YOU BUT FATHER GOD I DIDNT WANT MY LITTLE MAN TO LEAVE CAUSE HE WAS THE GLUE THAT KEPTOUR FAMILY TOGETHER, HE WAS PRECIOUS TOO.I KNOW WE ALL ARE PRECIOUS IN YOUR EYES AND ALL TO YOU WE WILL RETURN. I HAVE EXCEPTED THAT RELLE WILL NOT COME BACK AND I STILL HAVE MUCH TO LEARN. MY PRECIOUS RELL IS WITH YOU AND THERE WILL BE A DAY I TOO WILL LEAVE THIS EARTHLY PLACE AND RELL WILL  LIGHT MY WAY. I KNOW YOUR ARMS WILL BE OPEN AND I WILL HAVE A SMILE TO SEE MY FATHER GOD AND MYGRAND MOTHER,DADDY,POPS, IRIS,MS ELIZABETH,MRS ALICE ALL OF MY LOVEONESWHO GONE ON TO GLORYAND MY PRECIOUS SON JARRELLE.

                                                MY HEART ACHES

I STILL CANT BELIEVE ALL THIS HAPPEND A SIMPLE DAY AT THE BEACH. WE HAVE BEEN GOING TO THAT BEACH FOR  TEN YEARS OR MORE.THE 17TH OF JULY/2004. A  FAMILY DAY AND LOSSES YOUR YOUNGEST SON. OUR FAMILY WILL NEVER BE THE SAME AGAIN. THE CHAIN HAS BEEN BROKEN .EVERY MORNING IS HARD TO WAKE UP AND KNOWING YOU WANT BE HERE.

                                                                                                   MISS YOU SON

I LOVE THE AP STORY   .

THE MOTOR (ENGINE) RELL I HAVE TO SAY THATS ONE SMART YOUNG MAN. RELL EVERYBODY KNOW YOU LOVE YOUR FAMILY SOO MUCH. I NEVER THOUHGT A BOUT YOU BEEN IN ENGINE. I ALWAYS SAY THE BOSS AUNT REE WOULD SAY YOU GET THAT FROM ME. I HEAR A LOT OF PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT YOU HOW YOU ARE OR WAS I ALWAYS LAUGH . I DONT KNOW AM I JUST GLADE TO HEAR YOUR NAME AND YOU NOT FOR GOTTEN OR I KNOW YOU DID SOMETHING CRAZY. I LOVE IN MISS YOU SON .WHAT DONT KILL YOU ONLY MAKE YOU STRONGER(SOO TRUE)

         UNCLE VENSON WORDS

UNCLE VENSON TOLD ME MY LIFE WANT EVER BE THE SAME. HE SAID RELL PLAYED A BIG ROLE IN OUR LIFE,UNCLE VENSON NEVER LIED TO ME. I CAN LAUGHN TODAY SOMETHING I COULD NOT DO A YEAR AGO. I ALWAYS WILL HAVE SADNESS,VENSON SAYS I WILL LIVE MY SADNESS UNTIL THE DAY THAT I DIE AND I AM WITH  JARRELLE AGAIN.

Dear Rell,

I have been saying my prayers since July 02,1968 . I will continue with the prayers till my time to leave this earth comes along. I will never forget that golden smile of yours . You are such a beautiful boy you have given me another reason to leave this world in peace when my time comes. You will be the first one that I will look up when I make it to heaven.Rell you have pushed my grandmoma and daddy to second and third place. Rell you will be my hero.Rell I realize that you are with the good lord.Rell I know our family in heaven watch over you. I wish that I could had taken your place, so that you could be here with our family.Son you will be forever in my mind and heart.

MY LOVE MY YOUNGEST SON RELL MOMA LOVE YOU AND YOUR SIBLING SO MUCH.I TOLD ANGEL I MISS YOU. I ALWAYS WONDER WHAT IF. I KNOW ITS CRAZY RELL ITS BEEN ALMOST FOUR YEARS OH GOD HELP ME. RELL I AM BEING STRONG BECAUSE I NEED TO BE RELL I WISH IT WAS ME I SEE YOUNG GUY AND I SAY WHY MY BOY OR WHAT WOULD RELL DO IN THIS SITUATATION. RELL I AM SO SORRY BECAUSE YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE SEE WHAT I AM DOING NOW. RELL I WILL BE OK AND A FEW MINUTES I PROMISE. RELL PEOPLE DONT UNDERSTAND WHAT I GO THROUGH BUT I HAVE TO THANK ABOUT WHAT YOUR DADDY GO THROUGH. I HAVE TO THANK WHAT LIJOHN GOING THROUGH. WHAT ANGEL GO THROUGH WHAT KITA AND OUR ENTIRE FAMILY GOING THROUGH. RELL YOU ARE ONE OF MY BEST FRIEND AND I MISS OUR TALKS AND OUR WALKS . ANOTHER MONTH HAVE CAME RELL I DO UNDER STAND I WANT BE WITH YOU UNTIL I GET TO HEAVEN. RELL I TRY TO LIVE RIGHT AND I PRAY THAT YOUR SIBLING TO DO LIKE WISE .RELL  I WILL BE OK .TODAY MY BABY BOY . WHAT DON'T KILL YOU ONLY MAKE YOU STRONGER. LOVE YOU SON

MY SON BEEN GONE FOR  TWO YEARS

RELL WE ALL MISS IN LOVE YOU . I TELL YOU WHAT DONT KILL YOU ONLY MAKE YOU STRONGER. THAT IS SO TRUE. RELL WE HAD A BLESS MEMORIES SERVICE FOR YOU.WE ALL WAS CRYING. GRANDMOMA PREACH. EVERYBODY WAS DOING SOMETHING TO MAKE YOUR PROGRAME WONDEFUL.LOVE YOU SON.

                                 A GIFT

ON AUGUST THE FIRST 1983 I WAS GIVEN A GIFT ON AUGUST THE FIRST 1986 I WAS GIVEN A GIFT. ON JULY 15TH 1990 I WAS GIVEN A GIFT OF LOVE A GIFT OF HAPPINESS. ON JULY 17TH 2004 ONE OF MY GIFTS WAS TAKEN FROM ME THIS GIFT NAME WAS JARRELLE KALVIN CALHOUN WE CALL HIM RELL SHORT FOR JARELLE, MY GIFTS TAUGHT ME ABOUT SHARING AND NOT THINKING OF JUST MYSELF BUT OTHERS. THEY TAUGHT ME WHAT LOVE WAS REALLY ABOUT. JARRELLE LEFT US TWO YEARS AGO BUT MY LOVE AND MEMORIES OF HIM AND HIS SMILE IS AWAYS WITH ME. SOME TIMES ITS HARD TO THINK ABOUT LIFE WITHOUT HIM BUT I GO ON I GO ON BECAUSE I KNOW RELL WOULD WANT ME TO TAKE CARE OF HIS SIBLING AND FAMILY THE PEOPLE HE LOVE MOST,RELL WANT ME TO BE HAPPY AND I TRY BUT ON HOLIDAYS OR ON HIS BIRTHDAY IT IS VERY HARD,IT IS SAD IT IS LONELY WITH OUT HIM,SOMETIME I DONT KNOW HOW I DID IT LIVING WITH OUT RELL BUT GOD AND MY OTHER CHILDREN GIVE ME STRENGTH.GOD YOU LET ME KNOW RELL IS SAFE WITH YOU.MY HEART GROWS EVERY DAY WITH LOVE FOR YOU. RELL I TRY TO BE THE PERSON THAT YOU WANT ME TO BE I AM YOUR MOTHER AND WILL ALWAYS BE YOUR MOTHER.

                                              LOVE YOU SON